To me, ideal love looks like two people forming a team to weather any storm life throw at us. We don't compete with each other, we grow together, evolve together and put in all the effort to achieve common goals.
I agree that in the end, we should seek for love that is "predictable, straightforward, and uncomplicated", because life is unpredictable, full of ups and downs, and extremely complicated. Dealing with life is enough, we don't have to deal with each other.
Love from friendships is important for me too, and is ranked second, only after family on my love scale. Like you, I appreciate a few who are there with me during the toughest time, and also those who are still there, never question, trust and encourage me fully even when I do crazy things that seem out of bound. Friendship goes on and off, but I also hope that these people can stay for long too :)
To me, ideal love looks like two people forming a team to weather any storm life throw at us. We don't compete with each other, we grow together, evolve together and put in all the effort to achieve common goals.
I agree that in the end, we should seek for love that is "predictable, straightforward, and uncomplicated", because life is unpredictable, full of ups and downs, and extremely complicated. Dealing with life is enough, we don't have to deal with each other.
Love from friendships is important for me too, and is ranked second, only after family on my love scale. Like you, I appreciate a few who are there with me during the toughest time, and also those who are still there, never question, trust and encourage me fully even when I do crazy things that seem out of bound. Friendship goes on and off, but I also hope that these people can stay for long too :)